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Words by Thomas Jamison

Don’t look now, but the holiday season is right around the corner. Right around this time of year, I see my friends usually start to settle down a little, and decide it’s cool to get in a relationship for the winter. Of course, there is always that one or two friends, however, that still do the same single-guy behavior all day, every day. They attract plenty of women, and could be in a relationship if they chose, but they say they are happy single. What’s the real reason they haven’t settled down yet? The answers might surprise you. [click to continue…]

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Words by Thomas Jamison

Over the summer, I ran into two different ex’s whom I had not seen in years. While both were glad to see that I was doing well for myself, they indirectly both asked the same question: Why did I dump them. At the time that I did drop them, I did not have the maturity to truly articulate the honest reasons. I may have said we are “growing apart” or used the classic line “It’s not you, it’s me”, but that wasn’t it. I, like most men, dump women we once were in love with for one of the following 6 reasons.

6. All your friends are single.
The saying “birds of a feather flock together” is true. If you are the only man in the crew in a relationship, odds are the support to make that one work won’t be the same as perhaps her friends, who could be all in serious relationships and/or married by this point. [click to continue…]

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Trying to keep a balance between your life before your girl came into the picture, and now incorporating her into your day-to-day can be challenging. While some guys would say things such as limited free time or more expensive trips to the mall were the biggest adjustments once they entered a relationship, the most impactful one is usually the most overlooked. How well, or not well, your girl gets along with your boys can be critical in the health of both relationships. [click to continue…]

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Surfing the net this past weekend I came across this video of Porn Star Jazmine Cashmere announcing she was quitting the adult film industry, and that she has found God and religion. I am not one that knocks anyone for getting serious with their life, and wanting a closer relationship with God, but I also believe you can’t ignore a person’s past. No one is perfect, and odds are, when that newly saved person backslides, they will fall right back into the deep dark habits that they just changed from. Can you ignore a woman’s past when looking at having a future with her?
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4 Ways Your Friends Can Keep You Single

05.05.2010 Dating

Share Words by Thomas Jamison They say birds of a feather flock together, and often, that is true. Next time you and your boys are hanging out, take some time to think about where they are in all aspects of their life, but in particular relationships. If you are involved with someone (girlfriend/wife/etc), and they [...]

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6 Ways To Turn Your Woman Off

05.03.2010 Dating

Share Most of the time guys can be their own worst enemy in dating and relationships. Women will give all the reasons in the world why the relationship won’t work, but ultimately most of those reasons are within full control of the guy. Check out our list of the 6 sure-fire ways to derail your [...]

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Are You Too Pretty For Her?

04.14.2010 Dating

Share A YoungBrothas.com P.S.A Words by Thomas Jamison It’s funny the conversations that can come up at work. I was listening to one girl tell the other the guy she was dating was “too pretty for her”. When asked to elaborate, she went on to say that he spent more time primping in the mirror [...]

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Her Parents Hate Me!

03.22.2010 Dating

Share Check out this e-mail we received earlier last week from a brotha who has his girl’s family against him. I’ve been with my girl for seven months now, and we really only beef about one issue. Her parents hate me! I met them about a month into us dating, and from the jump they [...]

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7 Reasons Black Men Are Afraid to Commit

03.08.2010 Dating

Share No matter your age, you have likely been in a relationship where your girl brought up the “C” word before you did. Things may have been going smoothly, up until that conversation came up. Sometimes it makes us squirm, other times it makes us lie. There are even other occasions when it winds up [...]

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Bangin Body x Ugly as Sin – Dealbreaker?

02.09.2010 Dating

Share I think this happens to me at least once a week. I see a woman with a beautiful shape from far off, so much so her frame makes you forget what you were thinking about. Just last week I was out at The Sprint Store arguing with the customer service rep there about my [...]

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