10 Secrets Men Keep From Women

Words by Thomas Jamison

We are taught that you should not keep secrets in relationships. Open communication is not only healthy, but truly imperative if you want to have a prosperous relationship. As funny as it sounds, men might keep more secrets than women do. YoungBrothas.com drops our list of the top ten secrets we keep from women below.

10. We really look at you different if you have sex with us the first date.
Of course we will say we don’t, but we really do.

9. We don’t want you to watch football with us.
Football, and all sports really, are times most of us reserve to either a. watch in the comfort of our home solo, or b. spend some time with the fellas unwinding and complaining about you.

See the rest of the list after the jump.

8. When we say it’s not you, it’s me, it’s really you.
The classic breakup line is one that has been played for years. It’s much better to man up and tell a girl that her annoying tendencies are the reason you are dumping her, so she can change for the next man.

7. Commitment is something we do when we have to, not because we want to.
This is one that might cause some disagreement, but deep down, many fellas know thats truth.

6. We really don’t wanna know how many people you have slept with.
Would my decision to wife you change if I knew you slept with 26 other guys before me, and you are only 26 years old? Probably….

5. We are more insecure than we let you know.
Guys will show their insecurities in different ways than women do, but many have hang ups about themselves or their girl that they will never admit.

4. We do compare you to our ex’s.
It’s not fair, but it’s inevitable. If your ex used to do the things you wanted and needed better than your current girl, your current will soon be your future ex.

3. We don’t want to remember everything you want us too.
There isn’t enough space in our brain to remember everything you need to be reminded of and what we have to know on a daily basis. That’s why they made Outlook calendars and Blackberrys.

2. We sometimes like to be the hunted and not the hunter.
Trading places never hurt anyone.

1. We don’t like an artificial woman.
Sorry to break the news to you, but a girl with a lace front and some fake nails will not get wifed up. I might put her in jumpoff status, but that is probably as far as it will go.

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