4 Ways To Get Over Her Now

Words by Thomas Jamison

You may have just broken up with your girl after a long, stressful relationship. People react in different ways to this new found status. If you were the one who was dumped, you might be in a state of shock, hurt, anger, or denial. If you were the one doing the dumping, you might feel free. Either way, your heart will need some time to heal before getting seriously involved with another girl. Here are four tips to help you get over your “heartache and pain” in the meanwhile.

4. Delete her from your facebook friends.
The last thing you want to do is subconciously become a “status stalker”. What is a status stalker? Anyone who subscribes to their ex’s updates on Facebook, so that the moment they do anything on FB, you receive notification. Not a good look at all. You don’t need to see who she is talking too, and you really don’t want her doing to the same to you.

3. Invest in yourself again.
The time, effort, and energy you had put into that relationship needs to go somewhere. Now is the perfect time to focus on you. You may have made excuses as to why you weren’t working out, or finishing those online classes, or getting that second job. No more excuses. Just do it.

2. Reconnect with your friends.
A serious relationship can make you grow distant from your friends at times, and now you are single again, it’s time to get back up with the fellas. Guys Night will be more valuable now than ever.

1. Look for Ms. Right Now, not Ms. Right.
Odds are you thought the woman you just broke up with was Ms. Right at some point in the relationship, but she wasn’t. It’s a good thing you realized that now than later on. As you enjoy your newly found single life, it’s perfectly ok to get out, date, and have no-strings-attached relationships. Just be upfront about it with the woman. You will be surprised how many women are ok with that too.

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