Can You Ignore Her Past?

Words by Thomas Jamison

Surfing the net this past weekend I came across this video of Porn Star Jazmine Cashmere announcing she was quitting the adult film industry, and that she has found God and religion. I am not one that knocks anyone for getting serious with their life, and wanting a closer relationship with God, but I also believe you can’t ignore a person’s past. No one is perfect, and odds are, when that newly saved person backslides, they will fall right back into the deep dark habits that they just changed from. Can you ignore a woman’s past when looking at having a future with her?

Example:
A woman who has a history of being cheated on will likely not trust you as far as she can throw you, no matter if you did anything to her or not. If you ignore her past, then you are doing yourself an injustice in the relationship. That woman has some emotional scars that may never fully heal, and any slight actions that resemble her past will make reopen those wounds. You may think she’s tripping or even crazy, but her past is effecting your future.

Tagged as: dating mistakes, Relationships