If you are in your mid to late 20′s, like many of the readers of YB, you have probably experienced dealing with an older woman by now. As I have become older, I realized older women are generally more direct with what they want, more understanding, and are better in bed. I know the last statement may surprise some, but the older woman’s comfort level with her own sexuality usually settles in by her early 30s, and as she reaches her sexual peak, she becomes more confident in her pleasing of her mate.
So no one gets confused, I want to first define the ages I am talking about. For guys in their late 20s, you can feel comfortable in dating women as young as 20-23, and as old as 35-39. The younger the female though, the more drama and games you will wind up dealing with.
Lets start with breaking down the younger woman:
Age Group – 20 to 24
Pros:
Less emotional baggage
Perhaps no kids
Full of energy
Had not been heartbroken yet by a man
Cons:
Throw It In The Bag Syndrome (wants to be spoiled)
Buy You A Round Syndrome (Thirsty in the club)
Plays Games/Less Likely to Commit to one man herself
Still in love with bad boys
Meanwhile, cougars, or M.I.L.F’s as my white friends tagged them years back, have a better idea of what they want out of life, thus their lists of pros and cons look much different.
Age Group 30 – 39
Pros:
Financially sound
Taking care of her responsibilities
Not expecting for any man to be perfect
Sexually at her peak
Cons:
May come with some emotional scars
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Cons for the cougar…
(1) can't keep up
(2) insecure
(3) won't allow the man to have female friends his own age
(4) settled in her ways
(5) will NOT NOT NOT get along with his mother, aunt or Grandmother
(6) Will become old MUCH MUCH MUCH quicker
(7) will front for a second then always compare the younger guy to her past
(8) Everyone will treat the couple as a freak of nature
I'm just saying there are more cons than that….
I think you described the older man, not the older woman = )
Why anyone would introduce their cougar to their mother, aunt, etc is beyond me.
Nah I don't think many would get to "that" level, but you never know.
A friend of mine is 27, dealing with a 38 year old, and his mom is 46.
She would probably look at his cougar as a sister or girlfriend more than her baby's love interest.
Remember, cougars may come with cubs. And WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYY more baggage/scars. And all the cons of a younger woman can be the same for an older woman. But like I support women dating older men, men should try it out too.